I'm trying to win the $200 and I can't seem to get on any of the sites. I'm not lucky in love. I've been divorced since 2000 and the only men I attrack are either, married, intoxicated, an X, or a combination of all 3. I am full figured fun and fabulous person, but not happy or lucky in love. I wanted to do some part-time modeling, but no luck with that either.

I think that a woman needs to be secure with herself before even attempting to find a secure man. I know this is a difficult feat in a society that does not always see a big person as a beautiful person. I have recently realized how much of a difference confidence and self-love has when it comes to relationships (not only romantic relationships, but average everyday relationships as well). If you find yourself wondering why you attract insecure men or men who are secure jerks, perhaps you should re-evaluate how much you love yourself. After all, you really are the only person that you have to live with for the rest of your life-- so yeah, baby! Love yourself!!! (That didn't exactly answer any question and Im POSITIVE that all of you have heard the "love yourself" shpeel before, but if you find youself sulking around this valentines day season remember that you are never alone- you always have yourself to love) How much cheesier could that be?- ugh

I am in a “Secure” relationship -- I have found the love of my life and we complete each other mind, body and soul.

Hes my first love and only! Im very greatful that i found someone that treats me like a princess and loves me for who i am! he loves these curves lol

Hi Karen :-)

As long as you posted a response, you are entered to win!

These answers are fabulous ladies!!! Keep em coming :-)

I would like to add another option to the pool question: I am secure- but I attract insecure men.

I'm young (23) and lately have noticed that the men I'm dating are all at LEAST 10 years my senior (one, more like 25!!!) They have all asked me out and we've had relationships where they tell me I'm beautiful and sexy, and make no issue of my 'curves' or body size. I'm 5'8 and a size 16/18. I'm athletic (a hammer and shot put thrower) and find that I seem to be more intimidating to men than vice versa.

The beginning of this thread almost offended me as a young, lovely, plus sized gal, since it made it sound like if you're over a size two, you can't be considered 'arm candy.' To the contrary! I have been paraded around as 'arm candy' on more than one occasion, and have never been 'criticized for my curves.'

Am I 'lucky' in love? Not yet, but I don't feel that it is the fault of my size--there wil always be men who find a large and lovely lady attractive. For me, it is a personal thing, that has to do with being young and committment-phobic!

Ladies, just say to yourself: "Any man who's with me, is lucky to be with ME!"

This little 'thought' helps me with body confidence: No matter what your size, or body type, if you're the only women naked in the room with your guy, you can bet that he's counting his lucky stars that he's with you and able to be 'getting naked' with you!... I like to think of it like this--I'm the star-sexpot that is his fantasy personified, at that moment...'cause quite frankly, I'm the only one who's there!

-Happy V-Day!!