I have been very blessed to have found love. I met my husband when I was 8 months pregnant (and 255lbs) by a man I'd dated in college. He came up to the casino where I worked to bring his mother a birthday gift, and it just so happened that she and I were casual friends. I had no idea she had a son, let alone a FINE one! I walked away as he approached to get back to work and he followed me to introduce himself. I explained that I couldn't date anyone for obvious reasons. He said he'd wait as long as he had to. Six months later, he came back to the casino where I was working and asked me to lunch. We dated for 4 years and have been married for 2! I tell ya, love lives in strange places!!

I'm very lucky in love, I'm with a beautiful man right now. We met 6 yrs ago online. Unfortionaltly we were both too young to know how to handle the spark beteween us. Last year he responded to an ad I had. I knew immediatly it was him. Sparks flew, although he lives an hour away we see eachother almost everyday and we spend our time planning for our future.

Love is beyond physical appearence and I have never let mine get in the way of what I want.
I'm confident and confident men look for women who are happy with themselves and that's how
everyone should think.

LOVE YOURSELF!

I am wonderfully blessed to be in love with someone that feels the way I do about love.
Before I entered this relationship I prayed and asked God to send me the man that he would desire for me to have in my life. I believe in the power of prayer and most of all I believe in God.The gentleman that the Lord has placed in my life is for me, there's no doubt in my mind that this is my soul mate. Ron is honorable, filled with compassion and love. We have so many things in common. I love Ron very much, he is a man of God, and last but not least, Ron honors and respect my vow I made to the Lord to remain celibate until marriage.It will probably take us close to two years before we marry, and he's alright with my committment. Not only do I love him, he's my very special friend whom I hold dear to my heart. I love you Ron McCaver.

To paraphrase that famous curvy girl, Mae West, "Luck ain't got nothin' to do with it!"

I developed a theory years ago , when I first learned about the bonding hormone oxitocin, and its role in intimacy and love. Seems this pesky hormone is released in our ( women's) bodies when we make love.( It is the same bonding hormone our bodies release after childbirth to help mothers bond with their newborn). So we wake up the next morning already on the road to coupledom, and him? uh, not so much. IT IS A CONSPIRACY on the primal oozy magnitude! CONSPIRACY I SHOUT!!!... but it explains SOooooo much! Had I known this YEARS ago, I would not have been so cavalier with my body, knowing that my heart and soul would follow where it led. I would not have dabbled with that Scottsman, who had a charming accent, and eventually,took my heart and my house, too. I would not have stirred to the rhythm of the conga drummer who could keep separate rhythm with each hand ( very...um, well, handy!) I would not have sniffed around that Chef who made me a meat cake for my birthday, when I was doing the low-carb thing. I would have known that mom and grandma and Auntie Ruth were all right, though they hadn't a clue why....KEEP YOUR KNEES TOGETHER, til he's proven his worth! There is a conspiracy afoot, and you and I are its hapless victims. For when you love a man, you will bleed out your life one day, one hour, one rapturous evening at a time. Make sure he's worthy of it, or the COSMIC JOKE is on YOU!

Now you know. LUCK ain't got nothin' to do with it.

I always wanted to fall in love with the boy next door. You know the story: he was the boy you met at five and ended up becoming your best friend, despite his condition of having the “cooties.” He was also there for you during your daily dose of torture and suffering known as junior high school. When high school arrived, you tried to reinvent yourself and leave all signs of your past personality behind. But he was there to remind you that giving up your past self meant also losing his friendship. That’s the day he told you he loved you and had always loved you. And like a bolt of lightening, your mind, body, and soul was struck with the revelation that you loved him too.

Unfortunately, for me, that character never popped up in my neighborhood. After high school, I left the small town that had failed to give me a lifelong love and headed to the city. Now when a young girl lives in the same small town her whole life and then moves to a big city, she’s going to need a friend. I found him in the scene next door. He was part of the same performance troupe as I, but we didn’t have any scenes together. However, slowly but surely, our faces would recognize each other during our time with the troupe. Before we knew it, we seemed to have grown up together among this small community of players. He was there when I was new and had no one to talk to. He was there to introduce me to the people I was supposed to know. He was there to make me smile when my newness to the city became too overwhelming. And he is still with me today. I guess the way I found him wasn’t the way I wanted. But he fills me with life and love, which is more than I could ever wish for.